Dear Sista, It is not wise to lose your peace trying to please others. At the end of the day, we have to live in the conditions we've allowed to grow. The goal is to foster a healthy environment that encourages growth and peace. Setting boundaries— even ones that force you to treat yourself better — can be challenging at first. It's normal to have an "adjustment period" where adjusting to the new instilled discipline feels awkward or uncomfortable. If you don't give up in the